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I believe that each person is unique and special and that is why each journey is also unique and special

Psychologist graduated from Unesp - Assis - SP. Diploma recognized in the Netherlands. Psychoanalyst with a Lacanian orientation. Licensed to work with the Schip method. Adult and couples therapist, or couples in the process of separation.

I've been working for 30 years with clients in conflict situations such as divorces and family disagreements. I develop recognized work in the area of domestic violence in the Netherlands, offering supervision and giving lectures and workshops on the subject for professionals in the Netherlands.​

Analytical listening is what guides the treatment. In this sense, I invite my client to work on his path of self-listening in the therapeutic process, so that he/she can find his/her own path and follow it according to his/her own desire. ​

In my couples therapy work I use the Schip method (Samenkomen, conflict en verlies

verheldering, helpend horen, integratie en partnerschap). This approach was developed in the Netherlands and aims to work on the couple's connection, thus enabling the couple to rediscover together new paths for the relationship, be it the couple's separation or continuity of the relationship on new bases. In this approach, the couple no longer necessarily need to be together as partners for there to be a desire to improve the relationship between the two. ​

SCHIP was developed as a post-relational grieving process for ex-partners with the ultimate goal of working together as partners in parenting.

In practice, the SCHIP approach increasingly serves as relationship therapy, and consists of a series of 5 phases that partners go through together.

SCHIP is the acronym in Dutch for: Coming Together, Conflict and Loss Clarification,

Helping Hearing, Integration and Partnership. It not only focuses on the reality of the conflict that has arisen, but also looks at what has been lost in the relationship. In a relationship, conflicts arise. These may or may not be pronounced. Conflicts, pronounced and elaborated and not named, can lead to losses. These underlying aspects of the loss are often less visible. Loss creates sadness. This pain

is usually experienced individually. Often, what they both lost together is ignored.

When can the SCHIP approach be used?

The SCHIP approach can be applied in all situations when there is a conflict in relationships between couples, as well as before a possible divorce.

* Are you in a relationship crisis?

* Do you have hope that you can solve this together?

* Are you thinking about getting divorced?

* Are you already divorced but it's not going well and your children are suffering as a result?

The goal of the SCHIP approach is to reconnect (former) partners in such a way that they are able to work together on their common goals. Exploring and changing unhelpful patterns within your relationship.

* Deal differently with difficult moments that happened in your relationship.

* Talking about your intimacy and desires and any limits on this.

* How you can build a secure foundation for discussing difficult things.

* This provides more understanding and peace, more connection and a firmer foundation for your relationship by knowing your sensitivities in the relationship.

It means hard work and, above all, that you are both motivated to achieve it.